Men and women

Who hasn't heard this excuse for mens actions toward women? 'Guys can't help themselves its how their hardwired.' Meanwhile women must do everything they can to prevent a man from lusting after them.
This is all pure BS. High sexual urges occur in all humans not just one. It's stupid and crazy to 'pretend' one gender is special and the other is not. Women don't serve men and men don't serve women. We're supposed to be in this together, but u got all these arrogant men that think they can talk to and treat women like their a piece of meat. If a woman can't walk down the street NAKED without u wanting to have sex with her whether she is willing to or not. Your in the wrong. She shouldn't be forced to 'cover up' and not be her natural self. As men we have been subtly taught our whole lives that women are suposed to be 'kinda beside but mostly behind us' its pure BS. I've met so many strong, intelligent, beautiful and insecure women in my life. The most striking similarity that I have found in all of these women is the insecurity. Most importantly 'the cause of their insecurity'. It's crazy to see just how far humanity has gone from the beginning to now. Yet, the most basic thing we need to truly succeed is always missed. We are constantly having to tell people, 'no you can't do that. Why? U mean i actually have to explain to you why it is wrong to strip a drunk woman and have sex with her when she barely knows where she is. I understand she chose to get drunk, but what if a gay guy did it to you? Consent to me has always been pretty straight forward. However, it would appear to me that many men fail to grasp this simple concept. Both parties have to be fully aware of what they are doing and fully aware of the consequences of those actions. Drinking and doing drugs are proven to impare judgement. Therefore, unless it was discussed pre-intoxication, you cannot get permission period! End of discussion. There is not what ifs. Prior approval or it's a no. I know some women lie and 'ask for it', but as respectful gentlemen it is our responsibility to take charge of the situation, say no and help the lady get sober or to sleep safely and unsoiled. Perspective is a big thing with these things. It's hard for many men to see an issue with their behavior. However, I've seen case studies where people are put on the other side of an issue and their attitude about the whole situation changed. Nobody wants to be scared or have to do things they aren't comfortable with just to avoid getting taken advantage of or shamed. As men we must take more responsibility for our actions and quit blaming women for everything.